{"id":1787,"date":"2021-04-19T11:34:47","date_gmt":"2021-04-19T09:34:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/prahaskolska-backup.200.solutions.uvirt120.active24.cz\/?p=1787"},"modified":"2021-04-19T11:34:47","modified_gmt":"2021-04-19T09:34:47","slug":"deti-uz-jsou-casto-apaticke-a-bez-zajmu-a-jejich-rodice-vycerpani-rika-vedouci-rodicovske-linky","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/prahaskolska-backup.200.solutions\/?p=1787","title":{"rendered":"D\u011bti u\u017e jsou \u010dasto apatick\u00e9 a bez z\u00e1jmu a jejich rodi\u010de vy\u010derpan\u00ed, \u0159\u00edk\u00e1 vedouc\u00ed Rodi\u010dovsk\u00e9 linky"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Rodi\u010dovsk\u00e1 linka v leto\u0161n\u00edm roce slav\u00ed u\u017e 20 let svoj\u00ed existence. Za dobu fungov\u00e1n\u00ed se d\u016fvody, kv\u016fli kter\u00fdm rodi\u010de volaj\u00ed, chatuj\u00ed nebo pos\u00edlaj\u00ed e-maily, zm\u011bnily. T\u00edm hlavn\u00edm t\u00e9matem v\u0161ak nad\u00e1le z\u016fst\u00e1vaj\u00ed rodinn\u00e9 vztahy. Pandemie koronaviru, kter\u00e1 zas\u00e1hla v lo\u0148sk\u00e9m roce v\u011bt\u0161inu \u010desk\u00fdch \u0161kol\u00e1k\u016f a jejich rodin, v\u0161ak tak\u00e9 p\u0159inesla nov\u00e9 probl\u00e9my. N\u011bkter\u00e9 d\u011bti za\u010d\u00ednaj\u00ed b\u00fdt p\u0159i dlouhotrvaj\u00edc\u00ed v\u00fduce na d\u00e1lku bez z\u00e1jmu a odm\u00edtaj\u00ed se p\u0159ipojovat k online v\u00fduce. Vy\u010derpan\u00fdm rodi\u010d\u016fm se tak pracovn\u00edci linky sna\u017e\u00ed pomoci naj\u00edt cesty, jak si alespo\u0148 trochu od stresu ulevit, \u0159\u00edk\u00e1 v rozhovoru pro Prahu \u0161kolskou Kate\u0159ina Schmidov\u00e1, vedouc\u00ed Rodi\u010dovsk\u00e9 linky.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Co jsou nej\u010dast\u011bj\u0161\u00ed t\u00e9mata, kter\u00e1 na Rodi\u010dovsk\u00e9 lince \u0159e\u0161\u00edte?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nej\u010dast\u011bj\u0161\u00edm t\u00e9matem na Rodi\u010dovsk\u00e9 lince jsou rodinn\u00e9 vztahy. S klienty \u0159e\u0161\u00edme p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm probl\u00e9my v rodinn\u00e9 komunikaci \u010di situace t\u00fdkaj\u00edc\u00ed se rozvodu, porozvodov\u00e9ho uspo\u0159\u00e1d\u00e1n\u00ed p\u00e9\u010de o d\u00edt\u011b. Dal\u0161\u00edm typick\u00fdm t\u00e9matem jsou v\u00fdchovn\u00e9 probl\u00e9my. Jedn\u00e1 se o b\u011b\u017en\u00e9 i z\u00e1va\u017en\u00e9 v\u00fdchovn\u00e9 obt\u00ed\u017ee d\u011bt\u00ed, nap\u0159\u00edklad zv\u00fd\u0161enou agresivitu, lhan\u00ed, opakovan\u00e9 kr\u00e1de\u017ee, zneu\u017e\u00edv\u00e1n\u00ed n\u00e1vykov\u00fdch l\u00e1tek. Setk\u00e1v\u00e1me i s p\u0159\u00edpady mlad\u00fdch dosp\u011bl\u00fdch, kte\u0159\u00ed \u010dasto nepracuj\u00ed, jsou z\u00e1visl\u00ed na po\u010d\u00edta\u010di a v\u016f\u010di sv\u00fdm rodi\u010d\u016fm zvy\u0161uj\u00ed svoji agresivitu. Za posledn\u00ed roky se tak\u00e9 v\u00fdrazn\u011b zv\u00fd\u0161il po\u010det vol\u00e1n\u00ed t\u00fdkaj\u00edc\u00edch se psychick\u00fdch obt\u00ed\u017e\u00ed u d\u011bt\u00ed (nap\u0159\u00edklad \u00fazkosti a deprese, sebepo\u0161kozov\u00e1n\u00ed, sebevra\u017eedn\u00e9 tendence). Mezi specifick\u00e1 t\u00e9mata Rodi\u010dovsk\u00e9 linky pat\u0159\u00ed i probl\u00e9my spjat\u00e9 se \u0161koln\u00ed doch\u00e1zkou. Rodi\u010de maj\u00ed tak\u00e9 pot\u0159ebu s n\u00e1mi konzultovat partnersk\u00e9 vztahy \u010di sexualitu sv\u00fdch d\u011bt\u00ed, nap\u0159\u00edklad zah\u00e1jen\u00ed p\u0159ed\u010dasn\u00e9ho sexu\u00e1ln\u00edho \u017eivota, sexu\u00e1ln\u00ed experimentov\u00e1n\u00ed mezi d\u011btmi. Volaj\u00edc\u00ed se na n\u00e1s t\u00e9\u017e obrac\u00ed s podez\u0159en\u00edm na <\/strong>t\u00fdr\u00e1n\u00ed, zneu\u017e\u00edvan\u00ed nebo zanedb\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed d\u00edt\u011bte v rodin\u011b nebo ve sv\u00e9m okol\u00ed. <\/strong>Velmi \u010dasto pro\u017e\u00edvaj\u00ed zoufalstv\u00ed z toho, \u017ee se d\u011btem v rodin\u011b i mimo ni v\u00fdrazn\u011b ubli\u017euje, a v\u011bt\u0161inou nev\u011bd\u00ed, jak\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem by m\u011bli vhodn\u011b zas\u00e1hnout. Ob\u00e1vaj\u00ed se ohro\u017een\u00ed ze strany rodiny, kde je d\u00edt\u011bti ubli\u017eov\u00e1no, co\u017e je d\u016fvod, pro\u010d anonymn\u011b oznamuj\u00ed sv\u00e9 podez\u0159en\u00ed na na\u0161i linku.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Jak moc se zm\u011bnily d\u016fvody telefon\u00e1t\u016f v posledn\u00edm roce s pandemi\u00ed koronaviru? P\u0159ibylo volaj\u00edc\u00edch?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Za rok 2020 jsme zaznamenali n\u00e1r\u016fst po\u010dtu hovor\u016f o 18 procent.  N\u00e1r\u016fst byl p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm u t\u00e9mat rodinn\u00fdch vztah\u016f, psychick\u00fdch obt\u00ed\u017e\u00ed u d\u011bt\u00ed, \u0161koln\u00edch probl\u00e9m\u016f \u010di ohro\u017een\u00ed d\u011bt\u00ed na internetu. T\u00e9mata se v dob\u011b koronavirov\u00e9 krize v\u00fdrazn\u011b nem\u011bn\u00ed. Sp\u00ed\u0161e se m\u011bn\u00ed obsah hovor\u016f, kdy rodi\u010de maj\u00ed specifi\u010dt\u011bj\u0161\u00ed dotazy, t\u00fdkaj\u00edc\u00ed se nap\u0159\u00edklad p\u0159ed\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed d\u011bt\u00ed v r\u00e1mci porozvodov\u00e9ho uspo\u0159\u00e1d\u00e1n\u00ed p\u00e9\u010de v dob\u00e1ch karant\u00e9ny, nebo reakce d\u011bt\u00ed na \u00famrt\u00ed v rodin\u011b na koronavirus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Co jsou nej\u010dast\u011bj\u0161\u00ed probl\u00e9my, kter\u00e9 v sou\u010dasn\u00e9 dob\u011b rodi\u010de \u0159e\u0161\u00ed?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Krom\u011b ji\u017e zm\u00edn\u011bn\u00fdch t\u00e9mat se setk\u00e1v\u00e1me p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm s vy\u010derpan\u00fdmi rodi\u010di, respektive s rodi\u010di na pokraji sil, kte\u0159\u00ed vn\u00edmaj\u00ed, \u017ee u\u017e n\u011bkdy nemaj\u00ed s\u00edlu b\u00fdt oporou sv\u00fdm d\u011btem. Velmi \u010dasto s nimi hled\u00e1me cesty, jak si ulevit, nabrat s\u00edlu \u010di ventilovat sv\u00e9 starosti.  Pot\u00e9 se setk\u00e1v\u00e1me s rodi\u010di, jejich\u017e d\u011bti maj\u00ed ojedin\u011bl\u00e9 v\u00fdbuchy vzteku \u010di z\u00e1chvaty pl\u00e1\u010de, co\u017e v dne\u0161n\u00ed n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00e9 dob\u011b pova\u017euji za zdrav\u00e9 odreagov\u00e1n\u00ed emoc\u00ed, ale rodi\u010de to m\u016f\u017ee pochopiteln\u011b polekat. Av\u0161ak kontaktuj\u00ed n\u00e1s i rodi\u010de, jejich\u017e d\u011bti maj\u00ed vlivem nouzov\u00e9ho stavu po\u010d\u00ednaj\u00edc\u00ed psychick\u00e9 obt\u00ed\u017ee, jsou apatick\u00e9, v\u0161e odm\u00edtaj\u00ed, p\u0159est\u00e1vaj\u00ed j\u00edst, komunikovat s okol\u00edm, maj\u00ed \u00fazkosti, za\u010d\u00ednaj\u00ed se sebepo\u0161kozovat. Samoz\u0159ejm\u011b se potk\u00e1v\u00e1me i s t\u00edm, \u017ee d\u011btem, kter\u00e9 pr\u016fb\u011b\u017en\u011b byly v psychologick\u00e9 \u010di psychiatrick\u00e9 p\u00e9\u010di, se psychick\u00e9 obt\u00ed\u017ee prohloubily.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Co nej\u010dast\u011bji \u0159e\u0161\u00ed rodi\u010de \u0161kol\u00e1k\u016f?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nej\u010dast\u011bji se jedn\u00e1 o situace t\u00fdkaj\u00edc\u00ed se vztahu u\u010ditele k d\u00edt\u011bti, nap\u0159\u00edklad pocit n\u00e1ro\u010dnosti ze strany u\u010ditele, \u0161patn\u00e1 komunikace, poni\u017eov\u00e1n\u00ed ze strany u\u010ditele a n\u00e1sledn\u011b strach j\u00edt do \u0161koly. D\u00e1le se jedn\u00e1 o vrstevnick\u00e9 vztahy d\u011bt\u00ed ve t\u0159\u00edd\u011b a\u017e pln\u011b rozvinutou \u0161ikanu ve t\u0159\u00edd\u011b. V neposledn\u00ed \u0159ad\u011b s n\u00e1m rodi\u010de \u0159e\u0161\u00ed z\u00e1\u0161kol\u00e1ctv\u00ed a zhor\u0161en\u00ed prosp\u011bchu u d\u011bt\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Jak moc \u010dast\u00e9 je t\u00e9ma \u0161ikany ve \u0161kol\u00e1ch, m\u011bn\u00ed se to v posledn\u00ed dob\u011b?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Po\u010det hovor\u016f na t\u00e9ma \u0161ikana v posledn\u00edch let stoupal. Av\u0161ak za rok 2020 n\u00e1m po\u010dty hovor\u016f klesly t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 o 50 procent. Tento pokles p\u0159i\u010d\u00edt\u00e1me p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm distan\u010dn\u00ed v\u00fduce. Na druhou stranu se ale \u0161ikana mezi d\u011btmi p\u0159esunula do online prost\u0159ed\u00ed v podob\u011b kyber\u0161ikany.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Volaj\u00ed v\u00e1m i rodi\u010de v souvislosti s distan\u010dn\u00ed v\u00fdukou, kterou t\u0159eba d\u011bti nezvl\u00e1daj\u00ed?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u011bkter\u00fdm d\u011btem distan\u010dn\u00ed v\u00fduka vyhovuje, jin\u00fdm nikoliv. Av\u0161ak pozorujeme, \u017ee i d\u011bti, u kter\u00fdch byl prosp\u011bch a p\u0159\u00edprava na v\u00fduku dobr\u00e1, nyn\u00ed odm\u00edtaj\u00ed plnit zadan\u00e9 \u00fakoly \u010di se p\u0159ipojovat na v\u00fduku. Jsou \u010dasto bez z\u00e1jmu, apati\u010dt\u00ed \u010di agresivn\u00ed. Kv\u016fli tomu vznikaj\u00ed v rodin\u011b konfliktn\u00ed situace. Rodi\u010de s n\u00e1mi pak konzultuj\u00ed sv\u016fj v\u00fdchovn\u00fd p\u0159\u00edstup k d\u011btem a p\u0159\u00edstup ke \u0161kole.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

S \u010d\u00edm se na v\u00e1s nej\u010dast\u011bji obrac\u00ed u\u010ditel\u00e9?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nej\u010dast\u011bji se na n\u00e1s obrac\u00ed u\u010ditel\u00e9 z\u00e1kladn\u00edch a st\u0159edn\u00edch \u0161kol v p\u0159\u00edpadech, kdy pozoruj\u00ed, p\u0159\u00edpadn\u011b je \u017e\u00e1ci p\u0159\u00edmo kontaktuj\u00ed s t\u00edm, \u017ee maj\u00ed psychick\u00e9 obt\u00ed\u017ee, nap\u0159\u00edklad se sebepo\u0161kozuj\u00ed, maj\u00ed \u00fazkosti nebo mysl\u00ed na sebevra\u017edu. Dal\u0161\u00edm \u010dast\u00fdm t\u00e9matem jsou probl\u00e9my v rodin\u011b, psychick\u00e9 \u010di fyzick\u00e9 t\u00fdr\u00e1n\u00ed \u010di sexu\u00e1ln\u00ed zneu\u017e\u00edv\u00e1n\u00ed. Pedagogov\u00e9 s n\u00e1mi \u010dasto v t\u011bchto p\u0159\u00edpadech pot\u0159ebuj\u00ed zkonzultovat sv\u016fj postup a zp\u016fsob komunikace s doty\u010dn\u00fdm \u017e\u00e1kem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

D\u00e1 se n\u011bjak obecn\u011b poradit d\u011btem, kter\u00e9 u\u017e dlouho tr\u00e1v\u00ed \u010das u obrazovek a zat\u00edm se o jejich n\u00e1vratu nemluv\u00ed (nap\u0159\u00edklad dev\u00e1\u0165\u00e1ci, st\u0159edo\u0161kol\u00e1ci), jak se odreagovat od stresu nebo na koho se obr\u00e1tit, kdy\u017e si nev\u011bd\u00ed rady?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Situace nen\u00ed jednoduch\u00e1 zvl\u00e1\u0161t\u011b pro tuto v\u011bkovou kategorii, kter\u00e1 pot\u0159ebuje pro svoje bezpe\u010d\u00ed a osobn\u00ed rozvoj kontakt s vrstevn\u00edky. Pokud se d\u011bti \u010di dosp\u00edvaj\u00edc\u00ed dostanou do situace, se kterou si nev\u00ed rady, je mo\u017en\u00e9 se obr\u00e1tit na Linku bezpe\u010d\u00ed. Linka bezpe\u010d\u00ed 116 111 je bezplatn\u00e1 telefonick\u00e1 linka krizov\u00e9 pomoci pro d\u011bti a mladistv\u00e9. Je v provozu 24 hodin denn\u011b po cel\u00fd rok a je dostupn\u00e1 z cel\u00e9 \u010cesk\u00e9 republiky zdarma jak z pevn\u00e9 linky, tak i z mobiln\u00edch telefon\u016f. Provozuje tak\u00e9 chat a e-mailovou poradnu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Na Rodi\u010dovskou linku je mo\u017en\u00e9 se obr\u00e1tit: ka\u017ed\u00fd pracovn\u00ed den, pond\u011bl\u00ed a\u017e \u010dtvrtek od 9:00-21:00 hod., v p\u00e1tek od 9:00-17:00 hod.<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n

Telefon:<\/strong> 606 021 021<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Chat<\/strong>: https:\/\/chat.rodicovskalinka.cz<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Emailov\u00e1 poradna:<\/strong> pomoc@rodicovskalinka.cz<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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